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Car Wars, Star Wars, Marmalade and Jam Wars: Juggling the Kids and Duties When You’re Working at Home

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Working at home is a blessing in many ways, but it can also be a curse. For the two-parent family where one parent works at home, the onus is on them to ensure that the kids arelooked after properly, and this means, not just their packed lunches, but getting them to and from the school gates, andeverything in between. But what happens when you work at home and you’ve got numerous deadlines that can’t be shifted, conference calls that cannot be moved, or one child that has got such a bad case of the flu that you’ve got to split your life into so many different sections? How can we juggle all of this?

Scheduling Between You And Your Partner

Surely you both can figure out how to juggle it between the two of you? Yet, the focus is on you to get most of the things down because you have the luxury of working at home, but you still have things to do! Scheduling everything between you and your partner, even something as simple as picking the kids up from school, means that you can dedicate your all to the work when necessary. The best way to do this is to create a family calendar, an example of which you can find onhttps://Support.Google.com/families/answer/ so you can both keep track of everything that needs doing, and it’s there, on your device! This highlights how much your duties need to be divided equally. If not, then this needs addressing too!

Keep Track of Your Frame of Mind

Your mental health may slip down the list of priorities, but when you are rushing to pick the kids up from school, but you’ve got to get back in time for a conference call, you may have a million things whizzing through your head. The best approach is to focus on one task at a time. Even something as simple as driving to the school can be a nightmare when there are hundreds of other parents vying for a parking space! Safety has to be a priority, and even onwww.AitkenLaw.com/riverside/auto-accident/ you would be surprised as to how many accidents occur on the road in such a small area. It takes just one idiot on the road to make school pick up a living nightmare, and even if you’ve got to get back for a Skype meeting at 3:30, surely being a few minutes late is better than a trip to the hospital?

Prioritize What Needs Doing, First and Foremost

The tasks we face on any random day when we work at home and have to juggle a family at the same time are horribly stressful. Because it feels like an all-encompassing anxiety that weighs on our chest, to feel any sense of control over this, we have to prioritize our duties. Not only does this give us a handle on everything, it makes us focus on accomplishing the major tasks first, and we can tick off one at a time until they’re all completed. Focus on prioritizing your tasks, and you will feel better throughout the day, until tomorrow of course, when it begins all again!